You’re just a little thing, a flim flam thing
something of no consequence if you choose to see it that way
and if you do, you’ll walk into rooms, drooping head, sagging shoulders
nobody will even see
that’s the gait of defeat baby and it’s yours for the taking
as nobody, I mean nobody, wants to inherit that dried up mantle
so tell yourself you’re not going to be a cliché
the girl with no self-esteem
who picks herself apart the way some will eat paper and others scabs
even if it’s true you didn’t have the calcium back then
you’re here now and you’re among the fray
nobody likes a debbie downer
remember the girl you were at ten
who wore a smart ass comment any time someone
tried to knock them to the floor?
she was a bad ass warrior and you can be too
it’s in there somewhere, lost among the ‘what if’s’ and other fears
so you don’t like what you see in the mirror and you think that gives you
special privileges to hate yourself?
many women wear their scars, many women do not possess the art
of beauty and despite this they apologize for nothing
and pursue what they want with single-mindedness
you were brought up to think the only power you had was a pair of long legs
and big eyes but they’ll only get you so far
the rest comes from a place that isn’t written down
it’s the seat of the female and all her power
that’s why we lose ourselves in plastic moments and forget
the real allure isn’t a small waist it’s a large brain
conquer your self loathing and come out of your shell
whether you’re whole or incomplete nobody can tell
give yourself over to the riot of it all
you only live once make it count
chase the dream
chase the girl
damn them all
Reblogged this on TheFeatheredSleep and commented:
My latest on Whisper & the Roar
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I love this for everything it is and especially these lines:
“the real allure isn’t a small waist it’s a large brain
conquer your self loathing and come out of your shell
whether you’re whole or incomplete nobody can tell
give yourself over to the riot of it all
you only live once make it count
chase the dream
chase the girl
damn them all”
This is incredibly solid writing, Candice!
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Thank you my beauty 💓
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You’re quite welcome, love.
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Such a beautiful and encouraging read..live with your flaws, heal with your scars and rise like a phoenix.
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Thank you so much my talented friend 💓
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My pleasure Candice.You are a beautiful person inside out.Never forget that.
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Beautiful manifesto!
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Thank you dearest Bob
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Reblogged this on cabbagesandkings524 and commented:
At The Whisper And The Roar, Candice Louisa Daquin calls women to engage their true power.
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“So you don’t like what you see in the mirror and you think that gives you special privileges to hate yourself” – that is a brilliant line. I love this one, Candice!
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💓 thank you my wonderful friend 💓
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Always! 💗
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This is brilliant! I saved it for my daughter’s.
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Wow. Stunning writing.
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This makes me sad
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Bravo… this is how it is, and there are quite a lot of men who sees the beauty less in the legs and more in the brains…
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I was so impressed by your post my friend 💓
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Maybe we need braver men to admit to their fault… like you did in this poem…
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Amen sister!
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